Wallowing in boredom? Try Contributing.

"A meaningful life is never measured by what you gained for yourself, rather it is a measure of what you have contributed."

No, I didn't say this, an 80 year-old famous writer did. You see, you don't have to live to 80 to realise this. Here is a man who has been there, done that, survived, come back alive to tell you its true! I heard this quote when I was about your age. It has changed my life tremendously.

Should you find your life lifeless, boring, uneventful, your dream is all about getting for yourself good grades, handphone upgrades, birthday wishes, new stuff and newer stuff for your collection... perhaps it is time to reconsider:

The truth is this, you will not really live until that self-centeredness is removed and put to death. Sounds profound? Maybe an example might help. Think about the happiest moment in your life. Chances are, you'll find yourself in the midst of contributing your life to a greater purpose. It is never so much about yourself.

Practical application:

1. Don't just study and do your own homework. Help those who are seeking help. It sure beats going for tuition. When you teach, you give. When you study or go for tuition, you receive and it is always more blessed to give than to receive.
2. When you feel bored and tired, go and help a person in need.
3. Stop wallowing about how boring your life is, how boring are your lessons etc... I think the best medicine to cure boredom is your selfless participation.

I hope this will help you. You don't need to wait till you are 80 years old (I'll be 101 by then) to affirm what I say is true.

FT